๐ Hi, guys! I hope youโre having the best day & youโre especially enjoying your readings.โค๏ธ Today is a unique and very special day of the year because my baby blog turns 4 years old and I feel SO excited to share it with you. It’s been such a crazy and mind-blowing journey, I’m not saying goodbye to it yet, but I feel super nostalgic for some reason. ๐
I love my blog, guys, I know you already know that, but it’s such a special place where I can share the things I think and everything I feel about the books I read and other things as well, but above all, I love this project because I love to share something that I love with other people and being able to all share a moment together, and exchange ideas, is always a lot of fun for me. ๐ฅฐ I love the book bloggers community, sometimes there’s a bit of drama happening, but most of the time it is full of wonderful people with huge hearts, who are always willing to help and support others, I’ve also had the pleasure of meeting people extremely creative and talented people who have inspired me all these years. ๐๐ป
So here I am, I thought it would be a good idea to share some things that I’ve learned during these 4 years having the blogย ๐, things that may sound simple, but were a process in myself, so I hope that I can also help someone out there to realize how important it is to appreciate the little things.
I’m also hosting a Giveaway on Twitter ๐ฅณ as I always like to do for these dates because I think that it’s not only a way to celebrate my blog’s birthday, but it’s also a way for me to say thank you and share a little of that love that you always give me. So if you’re interested in participating to win a book of your choice up to $15 (it’s ABSOLUTELY INTL) you just have to CLICK HERE and it will take you directly to the Tweet.ย ๐๐ปย
Of course, I can’t start my post without thanking you, so THANK YOU SO SO MUCH, for being there on the other side always ready to support me, give me your encouragement, and give me your words of love. I’m very happy to bring you content whenever I can, it’s something that I enjoy doing, but I also love that you also enjoy it and you can find new books to add to your TBR, or we can chat a little, it’s a great pleasure for me. ๐ฅบ ๐ฅบ ๐ฅบ
I’m blessed to have you in my life, each of you has taught me something and I’m so grateful for that too, you’re special to me, you’re unique, and remember that you can always with everything you propose, the limit most of the time is in your mind, so don’t give your power to anything or anyone to decide for you, you’re the only person who can change your life ๐ซ & I LOVE YOU FOREVER. ๐



๐ฟ I Learned to be more Patient with Myself
This is something so important to highlight here today, because it’s something that, in fact, I’m very proud to have learned over the years, even more so this year where something in me has clicked. I’ve realized that I have to be patient with myself, I always want to give 100% in everything, and that’s not mentally healthy, it makes you feel kind of tired and frustrated when you don’t achieve everything you wanted to do on a daily basis. So I let it go, and now I just do what I can and what I feel like doing, when and for how long it seems best to me. I prioritize my mental health and my creative capacity because everything has a limit and sometimes I just want to rest and I’ve realized that’s fine, that I have to take as an order what my body and my mind are telling me to do and what not to do. And if I have to do just a little bit of each thing, that’s fine, anyway I’m a good book blogger, I’m a good sister, daughter, and girlfriend and I can do everything I propose, but one step at a time.
๐ฟ I Learned that my Content & my Voice are Valuable
I don’t want this to sound arrogant on my part, but I’ve learned to value more what comes out of my mind, I adore my content, and today I no longer need to have many visits or many likes to know that. I don’t need my content to be extremely popular to know that it’s good and has good quality and a lot of work.
I’ve learned that my biggest fan has to be myself, if I want to bring good content, I have to enjoy it myself first, you know?
Before I used to always belittle my work, each of my posts, and even be afraid to show more of my mind, because I thought that the ideas I had weren’t good enough because maybe the great book bloggers didn’t do those things. Now I know, for sure, that what comes out of my mind deserves to be shown, and appreciated, but first I must appreciate it myself.
I’m blessed with many likes and comments, I know that I have support and I deeply appreciate it, but what I show today on my blog, being bookish or writing content or about blogging, I know that it will be something that could be of use to someone out there and knowing that I can help someone or just give them a little hope and encouragement, means the world for me.
๐ฟ I Learned I Can Read what I Want & as much as I Can
I feel so liberated saying this and it’s something that I think more people should consider. Throughout these 4 years I’ve seen bloggers leave the community because of the pressure it exerts on them to read as many books as they can and read the most popular at the time and that kind of thing, sometimes I feel that we put pressure on ourselves because we believe that as readers and owners of book blogs we have the responsibility of reading 50 books per month when it’s not like that.
There is no rule that says that we have to read many books to be validated as book bloggers or active readers, reading one book a month is enough and that’s something that has been difficult for me to understand, especially in the first years.
I don’t think you need to read the latest releases to be a good blogger or whatever, this year I’ve been blessed to be able to read many new releases, BUT I must say I was very excited for all of them and that’s great! But I’ll not read a single book just because it’s popular, you’ll not see that on my blog, if I read something it will be because I really like the way it sounds.
For example, I love mystery and I’ve realized that I haven’t read mystery books for a long time, and I don’t know why because I love them, so I know that it will be something that I’ll incorporate more next year.
Guys, if you talk passionately about books, it doesn’t matter if the book it’s not well-known, you will convey something, I promise. Don’t let the pressure take away your desire to read.
๐ฟ I Learned that Supporting other Book Bloggers is something I’m Passionate about
I know this sounds so obvious, but I don’t think it’s. I’ve always loved the gesture of helping and supporting others, just for doing it, you know? When I started blogging, I was so focused on my own content and growing my blog, that I honestly didn’t even think about the community as such.
I want this to be more than clear, it’s not that I didn’t want to support before, but it wasn’t something that I saw book bloggers do too much, and although that idea began to be born in my head, I didn’t think it had any impact since my blog was very small at the time. But then naturally I started to feel closer and closer to all of you, and I understood that most of the audience or followers, whatever you want to call it, that a book blogger has, are other book bloggers, right? and I started to bond and create beautiful connections with you and consequently I started visiting more book blogs than before and I realized in a moment that I was no longer doing it as something I had to do, you know? but what I wanted to do.
There are so many book bloggers out there with AMAZING content and aesthetics, guys, way too wonderful but they don’t have the audience they deserve, and that’s one of the reasons why I started my series by highlighting posts every month.
I want to thank you for the support that this series has had, I’ll continue it for as long as has to be because I LOVE being able to spread the word and share a lot of content, my goal with this is that we build a network of support and love so that we can all visit as many book bloggers as we can, and if you don’t have time to comment, that’s fine, I understand it, but leave your like and sometimes at least share some content, it’s always helpful.
I want to end this point by saying that it helps book bloggers a lot when you give them a like, comment, and sharing some content, we don’t have as many benefits or recognition as we should, so it’s a good thing that we can stay in the light and be ready to grow with our platforms because that’s what we deserve.
๐ฟ I Learned that Getting out of my Comfort Zone is a Positive thing
Being a book blogger for so many years can sometimes become routine in some way, and it doesn’t bother me, all of our brains love the comfort zone, but I’ve learned that getting out of it can sometimes be more than positive, especially when you’re a content creator.
This is something that has evolved a lot in me, but kind of slowly over the years, and that’s fine, I think that today I’m less afraid to leave my comfort zone since I know that I have the tools to create entertaining content and bring you something that interests you, but I used to do a lot of reviews, now I’m not afraid to combine some reviews in a single post so that I can bring you another type of original content as well, I’m not afraid to convince things that I love with reading and books, I think that only then can you find your own style and give it a unique touch to your blog that differs widely from the others.
Don’t be afraid to talk about anything that comes to your mind, don’t be afraid to bring together topics that interest you, I think that’s where the magic happens.
I have many challenges that I want to undertake next year in terms of new content, so I hope you decide to stay to find out!

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I LOVE YOU, thanks for always being there for me. ๐ฅบ
I hope you have enjoyed this little celebration post, every day is a celebration for me because I just LOVE doing this, so I hope to be doing this for a long time.โค๏ธ

Happy Blogiversary!
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Thank you SO much, lovely ๐ฅบโจ
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Happy blog birthday ๐๐
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Thank you SO SO much, honey โค๏ธโจ
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Happy blogiversary
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Thank youuuu ๐ฅบโจ
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Happy happy day ๐๐
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Thank you SO much, Carla โค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Congratulations on four years! I’ve been following your blog for a long time and have seen it grow into something amazing. I really admire you for how much kindness you bring to the community and how supportive you always are. Cheers to many more years of blogging!! ๐๐๐๐
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Awww, Nikki, you’re such a precious being ๐, THANK YOU SO MUCH for your beautiful words, I adore your blog too you know, so your words really mean a lot to me. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
Thank you for always being here and supporting me ๐ฅบ๐ฅบโจโจโจ
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Happy blogiversary!!! I love how you posted about the things youโve learned. Especially since theyโre all really good things. I love how you like to support other bloggers and how youโve learned your content is valuable. Thatโs something Iโm working on โค๏ธ
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Thank you SO much, sweetie!!! It makes me happy that you like it, I’m so grateful for your support, you are incredible! ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ & I love your content and your voice, so you should do it too, it’s absolutely VALUABLE ๐๐ปโจโค๏ธ
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Making my heart explode! โค โค โค
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Happy Blogiversary xxx
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Thank you SO much ๐ฅบโจ
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4 years!!! Nice! That takes some dedication! I’ve only been a book blogger for like 4ish months. Totally the same. ๐ ๐ Congrats, Sofii!!! xoxo
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Thank You SO MUCH!! I hope you’re enjoying your first months as a blogger that’s always the most important thing โค๏ธโจ
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I sure am! Thanks!
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happy anniversary!!! and those are great lessons and great advice! thank you for sharing them, and to four more years!
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Thank you SO much! you ‘re so kind ๐ฅฐโจ
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happy 4 year anniversary, sofii! wow, 4 is such a huge milestone. iโll be completing my 2 year blogversary in december and i already can not believe itโs been so long, and iโve only been doing this for half as much time as you have!
i absolutely adore the community as well, and i definitely will not have blogged for as long as i have if it wasnโt for all the amazing people we have here!
i think learning how to be more patient with myself is still a work in progress. i definitely feel the pressure get to me sometimes, and i end up even more frustrated when i canโt read all the books i had on my TBR for example, when it doesnโt always have to be a big deal and i can always push back some reads for the following month. iโm glad that this is something youโve mastered, because prioritizing our mental health is definitely the most important and healthy way to lead life!
once again, happy blogiversary, sofii!
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Time really flies when you do something that you’re passionate about, right? ๐๐๐ป 2 years is incredible, congrats! ๐
YES!! the community is beautiful, so many people always ready to help others and give words of encouragement, I love that. ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ
Don’t worry about that, you’re not alone, that happened to me all the time, I used to put a lot of pressure on giving 100% of myself always, and I began to feel burnout, but I’m sure will be something that you’ll overcome, and when you feel better mentally and more relaxed, is when you create your best content, I assure you. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
I hope you have some amazing years ahead of you with your blog & again, thank you SO much! ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
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Happy anniversary Sofii!! You are honestly such an inspiration ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ I loved hearing your thoughts about what youโve learned through your blog, and I just admire how much youโre so honest and grateful for all your readers!! Donโt stop being awesome!! ๐
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Aw, THANK YOU SO MUCH, you’re really sweet!! ๐ญ I appreciate your words so much and that you’re here means the world, from my heart: thank youuuuu โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Happy blogiversary๐คฉ๐คฉ๐คฉ
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Thank you SO SO much ๐ฅบโจ
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Congrats, Sofii! I enjoy your blog and hope you stay another 4 years, and then another 4 years, and then… ๐
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Thank you SO much, Jacquie!! you’re so kind and I really appreciate your support ๐ฅบโจโจโจโจ
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Happy Blogiversary and some sound advice here โค
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Thank you SO SO SO much โค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Congratulations on the milestone! Hereโs to many more years of good books to come ๐
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Thank you SO much Callum, I appreciate so much your support, it means a lot to me โค๏ธ๐ฅบโจ
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Happy Blogiversary!!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
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Thank you SO much, My love โค๏ธโจ
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Congratulations on four years! Here’s to many more.
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4 years!! Great advice and lessons. Congrats and happy anniversary
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Thank you SO much, I really appreciate your words โค๏ธโจ
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Happy 4 year Blogiversary, Sofii!!!! You’re honestly so inspiring, and I admire you and your blog SO MUCH๐ฅบI loved hearing what you’ve learned from being a blogger, and here’s to many more years of blogging!!โค๏ธ๐โค๏ธ๐โค๏ธ
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Emilie, thank you SO much for your beautiful words and your support, you’re just wonderful ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบโจโค๏ธ
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Congrats on 4 years! I always love reading your posts (when I finally get the time to blog hop lol) so here’s to many more great years of blogging!
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Alex, you’re so sweet, thank you SO much for your support!!!! โค๏ธ means the world that you enjoy my posts, I feel honored ๐ฅบ๐ฅบโจโจ
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Happy 4-year anniversary! That’s an amazing accomplishment!
And thank you for offering such uplifting advice for both new and experienced bloggers alike! โค
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Thank you SO much, Noelle!!! It’s a pleasure to share a little of what I’ve learned these years, I hope it can be helpful & thank you for stopping by and for your words โค๏ธโจโจโจ
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happy 4 year blogiversary sofi! you are one of the sweetest and nicest bloggers here ๐ฅบ๐ฅฐ i remember when i was barely a few days old to wordpress, and you made the effort to come over, and support my blog โค i haven’t even been here for 4 months!!
i hope you and your family are all safe, and you’re writing tons, and having a great + productive lockdown/quarantine.
i love seeing your posts in my reader, and they all light up my day! i love the way you organise everything and your aesthetic is gorgeous โค
you have such a sweet, and caring personality, and i look forward to seeing more of you in my reader, and getting to know you better ๐
you are such an inspiring blogger, and i completely agree with you that mental health should be a priority. i love meeting new people over here, and so many of them are so wonderful!!
your advice is super sound, and helpful!!
remember to keep reading, and stay safe, we’re always here for you โคโค
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OMG, you’re so sweet, you don’t know how much your words mean to me ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบโจ and I’ll always be here to support you whenever you need it, your blog is Great! and I know that only incredible things await you with it. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
Thank you from my heart for your kind and warm words, you almost made me cry!!!! ๐ญ I’m a sensitive soul, I can’t handle this ๐
I don’t have enough words to express how grateful I am for your love and support. THANK YOU, I’m honored ๐
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Happy blog anniversary, Sofii! 4 years is a long time and an achievement in blogging ๐ I have always love your content and voice so here’s for more years ahead! ๐โจ
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Thank you SO much, Tasya!!! you’re an amazing person, I really appreciate your support and your beautiful words โค๏ธโจ
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Congratulations! ๐ I enjoy reading your posts and it also inspires me to write more.
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Oh, WOW! that means so much to me, it makes me very happy, really. ๐ฅบ
THANK YOU SO MUCH โค๏ธ
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Happy Blogiversary!!! ๐๐โค๏ธ๐
I loved reading the things you’ve learned! I agree, getting out of your comfort zone is important and fun. This is why I love to post about things that aren’t book related to get out of my comfort zone (although if you ask me, I’ve posted outside of bookish content for a while now it’s sorta become a comfort ๐ )
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Thank you SO much, Meg!!! I LOVE your content, so keep it up, I’m your fan! ๐ฅบโจโจโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
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You’re SO SO welcome, Sofii!
OMG, you are TOO kind! ๐ญ๐ญ Thank you!! You’re my fan, I’m definitely your fan, cheering you on!! ๐
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Congrats on the blogging anniversary, Sofii! โจ I loved the list as well, it’s great that you have found confidence in your posts and learned to trust your blogging voice – which is wonderful by the way!
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Thank you SO much, Steph!! โจ๐ฅบ I really appreciate your support and your words make me feel honored ๐๐๐ป
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Happy blogiversary!!
Learning things is one of the best things about blogging, and it looks like you have learnt a lot!
I haven’t been following for the whole four years, but everything I do read from you is amazing.
Here’s to more years!
Emma xx
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Thank you SO much, Emma!! โค๏ธ I agree, the most important thing is to learn, and blogging has given me so much, I love doing it. ๐ฅบโจ
Thank you very much, it makes me happy that you like my content and I really appreciate your words ๐ฅฐ
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HAPPY FOUR YEARS! That is so incredible ๐ This was a lovely post to read & here’s to another 4 years!! ๐ฅณ๐
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Thank you SO much, love!! โค๏ธ your support means the world to me ๐ฅบโจ
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Happy Blogiversary ๐
Reading this post was so much fun to read, blogging is amazing amazing thing and I love reading posts about everyoneโs journeys, itโs just wonderful and I love how close knit our community is ๐
Have a great day ๐๐
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Thank you SO much, lovely!!!! โค๏ธ the community is the best part of doing this, it’s so much fun chatting with everyone about books and other bookish things. ๐๐๐ปโจโจโจ
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Happy blogiversary Sofii!!!!!! Your posts are always so lovely to read and I wish you many more joyful years of book blogging!! ๐๐ I completely agree with everything you said here! Especially the part where you discussed reading the books you enjoy — I couldn’t have put it in a better way ๐ค
I hope you have a beautiful day!! Happy reading โค๏ธ
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Thank you SO much, Abby!! โค๏ธ You’re the most adorable, I always appreciate your comments full of love and support. ๐ฅฐ I’m so happy that you agree, I think that reading what we like is such a simple rule, but at the same time it can be a challenge due to the external influence we have. ๐ฅบ I hope you have an incredible day, lovely โจโจโจ
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Happy birthday ๐ ๐ฅณ blog. I love the tip about being patient with yourself, I need to work on it. New Blogger, would love a follow back.
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Thank you SO much for your comment and stopping by! you’re very kind ๐โจ
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Happy blog anniversary Sofii..๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ปI started reading your blog..
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Thank you SO much, lovely, I appreciate that very much ๐ฅฐ
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Most welcome Sofii.. Nice to meet you here
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Happy 4th blogiversary! This was amazing to read, Sofi. I have been blogging for 3 years and 8 months and I wish I can learn to write discussion post or at least have some idea on the topic to write.
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Thank you SO much, lovely!!! โค๏ธ your support means a lot and you have very little left for your 4 years too!! ๐๐ปโจ That’s great. ๐
I used to think that I could never write a discussion post and one day I just did it, sometimes you just have to try even if it’s not very long, it’s always great to be able to share your ideas about any typical that comes to your mind, you’ll do a wonderful job ๐ฅฐ
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Happy blogiversary! ๐
Eventough I started this blogging activity for only a few months, I can only find myself in some parts of what you highlighted.. I still have to learn a lot, but reading this made me feel that Iโm on the right track of things with my blog. Thank you for sharing your experience with us! ๐ ๐ค
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Thank you so much for your comment!! โค๏ธโจ I wish you just the best with your blog, and I hope you have a wonderful experience with it. ๐๐
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Wish you a very happy blogversary.4 years..wow. You an your blogs are really amazing and wish you many more years ahead.๐๐๐
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You’re SO sweet, thank you very much!!! your words mean a lot. ๐ฅบโจโจ I hope you have a beautiful end of the year โค๏ธ
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My great pleasure. I am glad to hear from you. Wish you too a great end of the year and a more successful life ahead๐๐๐น
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Happy Anniversary!! Iโve been blogging about books and stuff for three years and like you, my space is cherished. But, one thing Iโve noticed is how slowly my followers grow. I pour my soul into my work and share it Everywhere! And yet, there are days I get only three likes on a post and maybe 1-2 new followers. I would seriously like to know how people get thousands of followers? Any advice?
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Thank you SO much!!! ๐โจ My main recommendation is always commit more to the community in general, maybe visit other blogs and show your support in order to establish new ties, also advertising your content more is important, and it’s something that I still work a lot myself & I think finally, encouraging you to create original content can be something super valuable too. ๐ฅฐ
Thank you for stopping by and I hope I could be of help. I have some discussion posts on my blog where I talk much more about these types of points in case you want to check out โค๏ธ
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Happy Anniversary!!! your are such a blessing to this community and i am so happy to have found you years ago!
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Thank you SO much, honey!!! that means so much to me ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบโจโค๏ธ
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[โฆ] 4 Years Blogiversary | 5 Things Iโve Learned & Giveaway Announcement ๐ [โฆ]
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Happy belated blogversary, Sofii!! So happy to have discovered your blog ๐๐ฅฐ Here’s to hopefully some great more years of blogging! I like that you talked about what you learned during your time blogging! I’ve also slowly learned to focus on making the content that feels truest to me as if I love writing a post, it really shines through ๐
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Thank you SO much, my love!! ๐โจ Your blog is wonderful and it shows that you’ve found your voice, I’m a big fan โค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Happy blogiversary, and congrats on four years!! That is a really amazing milestone ๐ฅณ
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Thank you SO much Aria, you’re really kind โค๏ธโจ
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Wow, congratulations! I wish you many more years of successโบ
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You’re SO sweet, thank you so much ๐ฅบโค๏ธโจ
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[โฆ] amazing Sofii celebrated four years of book blogging, and shared a list of things that she has learned in that [โฆ]
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